I think nothing really prepared either of us for fellowship though. If this is his first year, I believe he has at least two more years, possibly as many as four or five. I don't want to come off as needy or clingy but I've also never dated someone in the medical field before. I adore the show New Normal and one of my favorite episodes is when Bryan decides to go back to church and the Father is so cool with him. No beliefs are protected from challenge, the rules of evidence, or derision. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. Dozens of missionaries have told me that the gender ratios in other countries are far, far worse. I am fortunate to be married to a surgeon who, although he has "the ego," he maintains Christian values in our home. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. I can live on less Our whole family has suffered in the name of patient care.
But daytime game is the key. Just let things keep going. When my nomo husband does go to church we discuss the talks. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons. Love in Different Languages. It's alot to understand if not raised and taught in it specifically.
I'm so glad we waited until now instead of jumping into it right then, because I have learned a ton and the learning curve of being with a doctor is far more steep than it is to be with someone who is not married to their job. But life is long and eternal and all righteous people will choose the right at the end. Our relationship also hasn't really progressed-- we're still only spending the same amount of time together that we were a few months ago. I do think this girl is a keeper, and I'm more than willing to tolerate, be patient and live with the crazy schedule.
Will things get better. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression. Being married to a doctor is no walk in the park. How do you doctor wives do it. Now a basic overview of the gospel.